Life As An Never-ending Quest Everybody seems to be caught in a battle both with him /herself and with people around trying to make sense of what is happening or what is the meaning of life.These philosophical questions could be the core of definition of being human so why should we bother explaining them ? Why this urge of controlling our life of felling all the time on top of everything when the ultimate image is not in our power to understand ? Being designed like a very complex mechanism of needs dreams desires most of them subconscious we are always facing the danger of losing the clarity. That is why life is an art we need to master to find the blessings of everyday living. Find the true balance One of our greatest problem is that reality never satisfies us and are inclined to consider someone else life or other places at least better than ours. Therefore to fulfill that void which seems to be in our life we do things which later regret. On the other hand wanting something else is the basic force which make us striving to be better and this is one positive aspect we should never forget. Thus the inner fight to temper these differences transforms everybody 's life in a piece of art. In doing this you should keep in mind that nothing is more important than your true soul and inner peace but to achieve them is the most challenging part when it comes to talk about real people. A possible useful metaphor to approach this complex problems is the art of an actor. An actor is capable to explore all the possibilities of his personality through his performances. What could stop us doing the same in order to assume and explore all the forces inside us which other way could become sources of pain. But this is easier to say than do and this is just a way to simplify what we deal in normal life. More than that actors themselves could be as easily burdened by their art causing the same lost of balance and true meaning in dealing with so many feelings. The sense of this metaphor is that sincerity is the only way you should approach your life. Being true to yourself and never try to compromise and lie to yourself should be the guide lines.
Sincerity Versus Sociality Assuming that it is possible that sincerity to be valued by all as a basic rule people could develop an improved citizenship and everybody could feel more relax in dealing with the others. But this is an utopian society and there is no reason to consider that personal problems and fights will be solved or will end.Because there is no clear cut between all the problems we confront and because good and evil dark and light are always intertwined. The boundaries are blurring especially in a society as demanding as the postmodern one when everything is in constant move and transformation. So you need to learn how to deal with what is coming both from outside from your family 's expectations and not only and from inside your own personality and hidden forces. Therefore you could feel weak incapable of finding your path and overwhelmed by your own demons. On the other hand projecting yourself as a flawless person embellishing all the feelings to fit into a positive profile is again not helpful. It could cause more damage especially when the contradictions are deeper than you could manage.
The Act Of Understanding At a certain point in life you should need to understand that the only way to remove the pain anger or other negative feelings is to accept to surrender and to allow yourself to be helped. This very profound truth should be learned again and again by everybody.This is because it is hard to understand its real meaning especially when a self centered philosophical perspective rules our society.Surrender to somebody for instance does not be understood as to an economical or financial level.