Introduction Most of the people will set their resolutions but if they could not achieve them within the set time or fails to accomplish them think about the mistakes that they have done and become spiritually paralyzed. But one thing that has to be remembered by every individual that we are humans and the mistakes are done only by us. We should try not to repeat them again instead of wasting our time in blaming ourselves. What defines you? Mistakes do not define you instead they help you in concentrating on your future. You need not be a pious to boost your spirits but you just need to make certain changes in your life which keeps you happy and drives you towards achieving the goal of empowering the spirituality. Points to boost your spirituality Following are a few points that will help you to retain and boost your spirits through better understanding As in every New Year people will be making their resolution to change something in their lives. First list out your priorities and consider them. Your resolutions may be to quit alcohol stop smoking lose weight get a good job develop a good relationship with your friends partners etc. No matter what every goal you have but your first priority should be to strengthen your relationship with God. The basic thing that you should do is not to regret about your past things. You should first start loving yourself then automatically you can forgive your mistakes and give priority on loving yourself and God. So once you develop a good relationship you can depend on God for his guidance on any of your work. If your priority is to get closer to God you can get into his kingdom and later he will help and guide you in every aspect of your life. So first believe in yourself you can achieve anything in your life. You should start thinking about him and should remember him while doing any action or making any choice. Meditation is the best way to develop a relationship with God and to seek his kingdom. Moreover you can do prayers too. Read the scriptures of God and get motivated with the words return in these books and try to set some goals that are achievable. One thing you should keep in mind is that reading the scriptures does not mean that you are initiating a spiritual resolution. Though you consider god in every choice but it would be better to use your own judgment and wisdom too in such things. Always keep in mind that how your relationship with God is going to get affected by the decisions you take. When you make any mistakes don’t get demotivated or upset. Always think positively and maintain a positive attitude. After making mistakes generally people think themselves as the worst batter instead it would be better if they think themselves as the best pitcher. Moreover think that you are not alone while doing things; there is a source of strength with will guide you always. Few people never forgive themselves if they do something wrong or any mistakes in their lives. Think that you have done some mistake in your project while working you have created some burden for your colleague and yourself speaking nothing in your first meeting etc. then how will you react to these situations? You are good to yourself does not mean that you should have the calendar full of spa treatment for you. It means that you need to treat yourself as the way you treat your best friend. Few people blame and punish themselves for the mistakes they have done this means that you are beating yourself. However self-criticizing is also important to some extent to motivate themselves for the actions they did and help them to prove better in future. But excessive self-criticizing may lead to failure in achieving their goals.