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Expectations while Dating Expectation is something that enters a relationship sooner or later. Every individual will have some expectation regarding their dating partner. It is good to have expectation but not high expectations having high expectations of/for someone is not realistic and you may end up with crushing disappointment and a sense of wasted a day in the end. It is not to say that you should not have expectations rather your expectation should be realistic. Your expectations should not be uniform remember individuals are different their thinking and their approach will be different and you cannot apply the expectations of a person A on the person B. You have to understand that each personality is different and modify your expectations accordingly. In other words your expectations should be based on the person and should not be preconceived. Many of us set a high benchmark when it comes to things like religion ethics moral attitude whereas other would not have any or low expectations. It is not good to lower your expectations as you stand a greater chance of being trodden over or settling for less. You should not be extremely passive acquiescing to every demands nor overly dominating. This can cause trouble in your relationship or even in your first date. It is better to seek out someone who shares your expectations believes in them and follows them. Any physical intimacy holds the chances of pregnancy it is better to be prepared for that eventuality by taking several preventive actions such as contraceptive pills condoms etc. Though abstinence until you are sure is still the best way to go about it.
Understanding Vs Realism You can be happy with a person who is compatible with your missions thoughts and attitude. He need not be from your part of the world or even from the same cultural background. If he has the personality habits and beliefs that meets your expectations you can take the relationship forward but in case he is not the type suited for you it is better to move on. Do not settle for less do not settle with someone who will not treat you right or the one who is going to let you down. You will be setting yourself for a failure in the relationship if you settle for less. Expectation’s will help you in sorting out your life help you to meet the right person than the person who is available. Having expectations is one thing and being realistic is another very important factor. You will have to understand that not everyone will be willing to change for you nor will they try to live up to your standard. You should know where to draw the line. You should know what you want and not what you aspire. Set yourself some dating goals check re-check to see whether they are realistic can be met - If so make it your dating goal else re-work until you feel the goals jotted down are achievable and is the one you really want.
Internet Quotes 'In 2011 Mark Brooks a consultant to online-dating companies published the results of an industry survey titled ‘How Has Internet Dating Changed Society?’ The survey responses from 39 executives produced the following conclusions: ‘Internet dating has made people more disposable.’ ‘Internet dating may be partly responsible for a rise in the divorce rates.’ ‘Low quality unhappy and unsatisfying marriages are being destroyed as people drift to Internet dating sites.’ ‘The market is hugely more efficient … People expect to-and this will be increasingly the case over time-access people anywhere anytime based on complex search requests … Such a feeling of access affects our pursuit of love … the whole world (versus say the city we live in) will increasingly feel like the market for our partner(s). Our pickiness will probably increase.’ 'Above all Internet dating has helped people of all ages realize that there’s no need to settle for a mediocre relationship.